The male approach to dating and getting married lies somewhere between that of a caveman and a mechanical engineer, often more like the caveman. So, I have simplified WHY remaining a girl-friend outweighs a girl-friend who changes in order to be considered marriage material.
These circumstances, that in the moment we judge to be “bad” or “incomprehensible” or “negative” are just events happening. Period. Not to us. Not against us. Just happening.
My ever so silent, battery powered electric toy offers me solace after a hard day’s work and makes me smile more than expensive cologne.
Was it love that I wanted? – but why? Why did I have this urge, this need to feel loved? Why was it important to be a part of someone’s life?