You’ve reached the point where you’re writing your grocery list while faking an orgasm. Your sex life has withered.
You should both ask, “What does it for me?” then merge your answers. A lot of people love fantasy. And there are tons of sizzling hot fantasies you can role play.
Address the problem head on. Don’t hide behind what you think is a strategic way to address an issue.
You met a great guy. The two of you went out for a few dates and from your end things seemed fabulous, but all of a sudden, he goes dark on you. You haven’t heard from him and he hasn’t answered your texts.
If you get nervous and overtaken by anxiety, that’s okay. By no means are you alone. But you have to go for it! You have to live like you only get one chance.