50 Toxic Things Every Girl Should Stop Romanticizing About Love, Life, And Relationships

37. Abusive controlling relationships. Ie twilight, 50 shades of grey. No one would stay with those creeps in real life.

38. Mommy Martyrdom. When I became a mother, my own mom told me to take care of myself because a happy mom makes happy children. This whole culture of completely stopping your life and only existing to serve your kids is ridiculous. It’s okay to maintain an identity that is separate from motherhood. It’s okay to have hobbies, interests, a career, etc.