50 Marriage Counselors On The Most Common Mistakes Couples Make

35. Not growing together. We all develop intellectually and emotionally as the years go by. If they do not grow together they will grow apart. Talk to AND with each other. Some say “They aren’t the person I married anymore” NO SHIT. That’s a good thing. Who wants to live with the intellectually maturity of a 20 or 30 year old their entire life. It’s normal we change. CHANGE TOGETHER.

36. Thinking that you have to “feel” “in love” at all times and if not, the marriage is over and they need to find their true “soul mate” because they obviously married the wrong person.

37. Equating differences in communication as “being wrong” or not caring.